Farewell To Peach

I’m not sure if any of you’ll have met that one person in your life who will mean so much to you that she will start to matter the most than others. But… I have. Just like from one of my previous posts i.e. “To Green” was a dedicated one, this is dedicated to that one person in my life to whom I have always and I always will compare my decisions to and look up on to. No not in the way you’re thinking of it to be.  Like I said in the post “To Green”, when you change your college, no matter what college it is, you tend to be really judgmental about it and you don’t expect yourself to adjust quite well around it or in it. Me and this “perfect lil lady” were going through the exact same situation at start because we both were in the same junior college (though we never met) and now  to this college from which we expected nothing. And nothing is better than not expecting something, especially from colleges. The person for whom this post is about is no ordinary person. She’s like the most perfect person you could ever have in your life and you know that parting with her will be the biggest mistake and the hardest decision of your life.

If you've read “To Green”, you might be familiar with the lines’

“As one of the girls from the 8 of us said, "Maybe it's not our choices to opt each other or looks or point of views for each other that got us together, but the dislike for our college is what got us and has kept us well-adjusted amongst each other." And when was the last time when she went wrong? NEVER! I am so not hyping about this, I mean it.”

The awesome, mind blowing and fantastic female of whom I am talking about right there is Peach (and I know that when she is reading this she has that twinkle on her face).

Always right, literally always and I don’t even know how does she do that? She helps you get your facts right, she makes you a lot better human being, she helps you cool down. she gets happy in small things, she is like the sun spreading brightness everywhere but trust me if she’s mad at you... you are going to sweat like what you would have if the sun was heating up the temperature outside, She spreads positivity everywhere, she makes you miss her when she’s not around!

Peach and I ended up having this one mutual person because of whom we started talking a lot, like really a LOT. Days passed by and she made me realize that someone like her exists; someone who’s got a fair nature like her actually exists. And trust me I am not even over-exaggerating when I say this, she’s the best at making decisions. No one and nothing can beat her. A girl with such unique point of view and such understanding flawless nature is definitely one of a kind and hard to find. From our mutual Miley Cyrus fetishes in the young teenage days to our differences in our opinions just gelled up way too well and it did not stop there. The more I knew her the more I tried to improve myself. So if you remember in “To Green” where I had made Green my daughter, here Peach was my wife, my adorable,, pampered, loving wife. Peach understood my insecurity for my close friends and my possessiveness for not to lose them.  There was this one time when things were not right with Aaron and as well as with my parents. The only person I could remember back then was her and I called her. She came home and asked me what’s wrong? When she saw my hands and my face she started crying and asked me that I would never make myself suffer this bad again. She cried with me that evening assuring me that only after I feel better she would leave. She selflessly left all the others behind and never thought once that is it okay if I don’t go to her?  Should I skip it? After that incident she did not only become my mom’s favorite but my dad’s third daughter. Peach is not JUST a best friend or sister or wifey to me, she’s a part of my virtual and actual family. When Peach is going though something bad or worse, it can be seen on her face, and it’s so not hard to identify. It was impossible for her to hate anyone and if she starts hating something, baby you’re losing out on someone special.

The reason why I am writing this post and write so much about her is because I have barely any time left with her. It was in winter’2013 that we came to know that she’s shifting to States. Remember how I said I didn't want to lose her? But I guess I am now. I guess we all are now. Not mentally but physically, yes. Whom will I go to when I am drunk making glow sticks something so absurd and funny while she is taking a video? Who will ask me to walk in straight circles when I am drunk? Who will ask me not to cry because I look ugly? Who will sarcastically tell me that she wants whiskey or vodka when I go around asking people whar do they wish for to drink tonight? Who will talk to me on call for hours and repeat like a hundred times, “are yaar aaj toh bohot garmi hai”. I’m not losing her virtually but practically. Every time she reads this post I want to make her realize that-

1) You’re still pretty without your straightened hair,

2) Even if you won’t have the perfect pictures like others, you have the perfect heart which not everyone has,

3) Your smiles can turn the world around,

4) Our mushy-mow will always miss you,

5) I know forever is a long time, but I won't mind spending it by your side.

Lots of love, and good luck.

19th December'14

-PriyaMistry.